Stabbed many times make you hard bitchy person unknowingly!!


Are women more emotional than men? Maybe. Men could be described as more sensitive than women, too. It depends on the type of emotion, how it is measured, where it’s express and lots of other factors. For instance, the sex differences in the feeling of “moral” emotions, women tended to experience more negative emotions, such as more guilt, shame to a secondary degree embarrassment.

Women’s are directly involved in a cross-cultural were they tend to more negative feelings, sex differences were in the intensity of felt sadness, guilt, fear, Sex differences in social anxiety across cultures find women are universally higher than men’s.Most these sex differences in negative emotion are relatively small, though. No Mars versus Venus here.The sex gap in depression is wider in high gender equity societies than in little gender equity societies.

Hence women’s are more proactive towards getting hurt than men’s. But I am not jumping into conclusion that people’s don’t feel anything, but the ratio of women’s breakdown is much more even worsen the situations.

Especially for women’s how effective is heart breaks are?? how it flip-flop women’s entire world??

As a kid I was thought to love without any selfishness, which is in burnt ethics I hold till day but it’s didn’t work the way I thought. Sometimes what it’s done again and again?? You’re an idiot or still positive about love vibes.

Unknowing, I went through breakups in each stage of lives, hoping next should be right or next or another next?? Which never happened!! It ended up with the deep rooted adverse effect it got in me.

Breakup in a relationship, where one person smashed you out of their life and just walk out. Relationships are not only limited to boyfriend or girlfriend, but it can also be any dump.

Heartbreak changes us and affects us. We grow a different perspective of love and become extra cautious. We behave. Differently, we act differently, and we react differently, and all these changes are evident from our actions. We start doing the things we do unknowingly, but the reason behind the changes is nothing but the pain men we dated put us through.
Going with this process again and again. This is how they are sick of all of it. Which even became apart of my own habitual rituals now.

I Doubt Everything:  Now I don’t trust any other person. Especially intentions of the guy who shows interest in me, next think goes what he need Just sex or he is just bored? We feel others Never take serious about us due to our past

Never Have Anything Good To Say: if looking for a new person in life,Even if a guy is seemingly perfect, we are always looking for a catch to look bad side. All in all, cheating and leaving people made paranoid, we can’t get never really fully satisfied.

Accept Sadness: All the heartbreaks and ignorant behavior of people we loved have left us perpetually sad. We don’t allow happiness to set camp in our minds and bodies anymore and are comparatively better at coping with sadness and moving on we keep sadness deeply inside where happiness can’t get in.

 Romance Looks Funny And bag of shity things. By that time we would go with non romantic movies hate romantic songs and people walking with hand with each other, I especially think it’s just for  sexual Relationship. But when someone tell “You are so beautiful I can look at you forever” I can’t help but reply with “Yeah, right” and chuckle. In short, our love lives start becoming hopelessly risky.

My Secrets Are Mine: I stop trusting people and keep some secrets to ourselves only. Expectations and the disappointments have left us so hopeless of any meaningful relations. You can never really know everything about people who have had their heartbroken one too many times.

Play And Ruin: Due to having abandonment issues, we abandon people before they abandon us to prevent any more pain. To not be ignored, we ignore first. We play games like this to protect our hearts, and these games ruin things for us. We start doing to other men what men before did to us. We play with and destroy the wrong people.
Love Becomes a Joke: We tell people that we will just die alone and keep hooking up when they ask us about our love status. Naturally, we start treating love like a joke and stop thinking seriously about it because that is what it has been made for us. Failing more than once often takes all our hopes down, and there is no to blame for it except the people who failed us.

Become The Flirting Kind: It becomes about having fun and never looking back for us after being left heartbroken too often. We flirt and fool around with more than one man because staying with just one man means giving him the power to hurt us and anything, but that is our course of action now.

Jump Back in Dirt Willingly: We become bad and hold strong grudge that world has damage them more than they already are. We have gotten so used to pain that we get high on it now. We are already so messed up, what worse can happen?

Love Stories Make Us Cringe: “That never really happens; I call bullshit.”Love stories are just too fictitious for our taste now. Not only do we laugh at them but they make us cringe big time.

We end up being curled straight forward truth seakers and never take bullshit of drama or lies. We might get the latter but love is hard to get, and we are not yet giving up at life yet. We hope someone heals all our wounds still.


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