Marriage is a traditionalist way of humanity or licenses stamped made of each other in front of a group of people Tagged in same Societies. This is applied towards all the religions. To make funnier it’s a call to everybody these two people are prohibited having any sexual relationship apart from their partners. But unfortunately, we do have darker cruel things involved inside this big fat marriage. It’s a trader selling girls for money or offering money to marry her. This is very common practice in Asia and developing countries.
Why marriages are such a big fuss which dooms many people lives. There’s no much logic to think about this. Because it’s followed by some bunch of people who carried this prototype called as Marriage. As humans and educated scholars marked this as one of their basic thumb rules. One man women or one women’s man.
Tag it as Love soulmates. Since I am from Indian society, arrange marriages are valued respected more than love marriages. Where Parents look for a bride or groom for their kids. Now my younger cousin is getting married with all the traditional way. They hardly match each other thinking. But Whereas parents checked first on each other family’s caste, sub caste, language, wealthier with good character certificate from others who barely know her/him.
In this process, families get together to mate these couples as per one word called marriage. Spending thousands or millions of rupees for one day drama. Once they are certified legally they are husband and wife. it’s official!!
But hold on, is this a fairy tale?? No, not at all. Here women who spend growing up in her comfort zone for 26 years is just dumped into another family culture expect her to forget her origin within 3-4 days and adapt man’s family lifestyle.
Even if she working, educated or uneducated she is forced to have sex with a stranger husband whom she hardly knew for past 7-8 hours standing next to. And next without no delay has a number of kids. To prove husbands as a MAN and WOMEN as productive machines.
Still, both standing as strangers holding kids and having no idea of their own self and person living in the same room. There is no much difference in love marriages it’s almost same apart from losing virginity. Becoz I strongly believe just sexual relationships won’t make them compactable. Still, they have to undergo an extensive testing process in their in-law’s place.
After certified marriage documentation sex, kids next what?? THIS IS THE PLACE ENTIRE HUMANITY FAILS. IS HUMANS LIFE IS JUST GET EDUCATED, JOB MONEY MARRIAGE KIDS IS THIS A LIFE.
It’s total nonsense, where are the key ingredients for love, passion, emotions, understanding, knowledge of individuality and respect where are these basic facts of life. These are the things which make a good living. Not any other things. At the end of the day who you are and where you stand??
I am not knowledging, marriage concept is wrong or running an argument love marriage or arranged by families. I just want people to hold on and think for a minute, we are not running any rocketry in our lives. There are no rules set for getting married or having kids. First of all, you know yourself what you are and what you want in life. Then go forward.
IN MARITAL LIFE DONT LOOK FORWARD TO Filling THE QUOTA AS PER SOCIETY NORMS BUT I WOULD LIKE TO TELL SEEK THE VALUES OF LIVES AND CHERISH IT!!
Having a hush-hush marriage and kids are not the goal of the life. There’s nothing wrong getting honest about yourself to the people who love you. And don’t blame family elder for your suffering in future living. If someone put a question of marriage you should be capable of picking up or opting out both man and women.
But in righteousness way. No one is entitled to suffer for somebody’s mistake. Know where you stand and go ahead.
If someone wants to show the manly hood show in ur character choice not to force anyone to be what every you failed to be.
EVERYONE ARE HUMANS AND HAVING THEIR OWN THOUGHTS ABOUT LIFE. Think certification is important or humanity. You have questions and answers is front of you. Choose wisely.