What is really love to suppose to be??
It’s two loved people madly in love wants to spend time together express loud, share emotions and understand. Nothing else will come in between them when love found. Slowly things change partners take things granted like someone of them getting quite thinking we stay together for so many years or months. Not necessary to tell express each other or tell how important you’re there for them??
In this Techno world, love has become so selfish, Until the requirement is fulfilled People enjoy each other company together. In later days fight starts blaming each other not giving time listening bind with Tag “BUSY” whole days and months goes until heart tells its enough break it.
Why on the earth we do this??Life is limited, it’s only about the attention we give each other listen & talk. Is this not a simple task??
But for what we are running in life to catch what rocket spacecraft or to hold a space station? What the hell we are running for?? At last one thing remains money Power & meanness!! How much money you need to live a simple life?? Or still unaware how much is sufficient to have a normal life??
THINK!! LISTEN FOLKS WHAT THE HELL YOU NEED”
I think people, however, writes the blogs and reading it, defiantly not the poor person which I am sure about. Just make sure which goal you need money material things or simple human touch or loving person be with you ??
I had a bad experience with people, I always ended with mean people how were selfish about society status money or they don’t want to listen to another side what I felt and I was judged for every single thing. Gained awesome Tag names” Selfish, Treat another person as Servant, Don’t know the Value of friends, and at last, I hold a place bad as fighter don’t understand another side”
I always fell in love with the person who they are? Ignoring all they bad side. But it was always I was the bad guy. So now I stopped falling in love!!
As a loner I think a lot on this subject: Especially in India, Men hold a higher place, so they are not supposed to express anything. As wife or girlfriends are connected they don’t feel the importance of touch(apart from sex) talking and listening to the opposite person. It’s very rare to think Women’s emotional part is more active than men’s.
They forget to acknowledge simple things in life “Attention, Talking, Touch, Listen”. But Sex is very Important, that part is different for them not connected to other things.
But this is different in Western Countries they are very open expressing things whether emotions or physical needs. They take responsibilities for the action whatever happens. But that I did not find in India.
Note: Few are different from both India or Western part of the world.
Many people think Silent fix the issues but it increases the issues. Since another side mind will be bombarding with volcano what happened this or that. People go crazier that time and temper increase when they don’t get the actually answer when heart knows that is not correct answers.
No matter what the hell it is spoken and admit the mistake. That is the Best life to change yourself and the world will change automatically around you.Guess what you will be happier, but understanding as human’s have mouth not to zip and brain to think from another side. Ears to listen heart feel the emotions.
BLAME GAME DON’T WORK, IT’S GOING TO EFFECT OTHER PERSON MENTAL STATE. AND YOU HAVE TO TELL THE MISTAKE, TELL ON THE FACE END OF THAT TOPIC CORRECT IT BOUNCE BACK WITH the SAME AMOUNT OF LOVE
If you can find million reasons to blame and tell BUSY, surely find another reason to love them. Admit the mistakes from both the sides and move on. Save avoid having pain and wounded heart.
My experience!! Think about it!!