I had a fight every time with my boyfriend since he never used to express his feeling towards me!! I always felt left out when he was not around me and if he uses to skip talking for days!! I use to go crazy and mad over it!! And always end up with fight again in next long waiting meeting or call.
And I was always scrutinized that I was immured and expecting things like Indian Bollywood movies, meanwhile I started thinking, was I over expecting things and I should stop expecting, he would get eloquent. I was getting confused each time and end up puzzled if I was over reacting?? Many questions were storming my mind.
Then I started reading articles and watching movies, not Indian movies, for quite some years I started watching movies which added real meaning for our life-like Green Mile, The Shawshank Redemption, Schindler’s List, It’s a Wonderful Life, Life Is Beautiful, Amélie, Good Will Hunting, Million Dollar Baby, and latest one Collateral beauty !! These movies are not any love story. But the emotions involved in these movies are so natural. It’s not hundred times you tell “I LOVE YOU”!! Letting them know how special they are in your life and appreciate they work, what they had done for you given precious time which was part of they own life!!
That’s called Love expressing the emotions what you hold for each other. Later I noticed in the society I live, all the people are the same unemotional.!! They can express anger with a fraction of seconds but not let them know how life would be meaningless without them. I think there is nothing to lose by few good words once in a while express it. I think there will be no person on earth how don’t get angry and fail to express, then why to be coward to express love.
As everyone would have been seeing movies, apart from few unrealistic things “WHAT IS ALL OVER THE MOVIE ABOUT?? EXPRESSION WHICH TAKE US IN ROLLER COASTAL RIDE WITH THE CHARACTERS GOING ON OTHER SIDE”
This is not physical material pleasure, it connecting and understanding soul inside us!! Even thou a person know you from birth “MOTHER” who have worked and give part of her soul and dedicated her precious time for you. What you will lose expressing how important she is in your life!! You’re not giving her your time which she did for you. But at least let us know how overwhelmed you’re having her in your life. It’s not about she is your mother and she knows everything about you!!
EXPRESS YOUR GOOD EMOTIONS TOWARDS HER!! IT’S ALL ABOUT MENTAL PLEASURE WHICH CANT BE TOLD WITH ANY MATERIAL THINGS. It’s not only about your mother only it should be with every relationship.
We surely don’t know how long we are going be alive nor we hold a calendar when we are going to die, what if tomorrow you’re not going to see that person and you failed to tell them how much they’re meant in your life. When anger can be expressed even love can be expressed!! People are so self-conscious it would hurt them or make them weak by expressing!!
OPPOSITE PERSON HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO KNOW WHAT THEIR MENT FOR YOU IN YOU”RE LIFE.
This is with my own experience I am telling, once I could not see my mother when she was fully burnt and she was calling to talk to me!! But I was so scared I could not go and see her at my age of 9. But I never knew it was last time and last chance to see my mother, then I was never allowed to see her in the hospital she die after 2 days. Now I am 33, still I repentant that I missed the opportunity to see her and why I did not see her for her last wish she was my mother!! Whole life I will carry this regrets
SO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE HATE WHAT EVERY Emotion FOLLOW IN YOUR MIND!! Don’t be a weakling so you missed telling what few others meant for you!!
Now I am more expressive, I don’t care if they like or not but I tell it!! Not scared to be me. Happy to be open honestly and not faking things!
There is a proverb” Do the right thing, do the best you can, and always show people you care” Silence gives only pain and this will multiple negatives thoughts randomly with which will turn into a storm in mind. No one is a god here to go inside someone mind and pull out the things.
DON’T CRY AT MY GRAVE THINKING HOW MUCH YOU LOVED ME!! WHEN YOU COULD NOT TELL FRONT OF ME WHEN I WAS ALIVE!! DEATH BODY IS DEAD IT CANT LISTEN OR FEEL, BUT ALIVE DOES !!